What's it like being the mother of eight boys?
It's very, very busy. Boys are very loud and very physical and always hungry! So you're always running to keep up with them and making sure their stomachs are full. We've spent many, many hours at ballparks and soccer games. I don't know what it would be like to have a daughter. I just can't imagine that because our home is so boy-oriented.

Has it been difficult to raise your family in the public eye?
Not really. I think each one of our boys has the knowledge that there are a lot of people watching what they do and expect a certain standard out of them. So, I think that has actually helped. They have more than just their parents expecting them to measure up to those standards. There are a lot of other people who are leaning on them and watching them. They feel that and they are aware of that responsibility.
 

How do you keep your boys level-headed in the face of all the public adoration?
We live very normally at home. They do chores. They come home and do their homework and help out with younger brothers. They have to get up, make their beds, and clean their rooms just like any other teenager. It's the same kind of normal life around this household as what I grew up with so I don't think there's anything different here than any other home.

How do you handle discipline?
There are always consequences for everything that we do. There are good consequences for good things and not-so-good consequences for when we do things that are wrong. The best thing is to take away something, deprive them of an activity or something they want to have. It makes them stop and think. For the little boys, usually they're tired and so they are sent to their room and have to sit on their beds. A lot of times I'll have books there that they can sit, read and calm down; think about what's going on. A lot of people refer to that as a time-out period and I think it helps to take that time to let tempers settle down and think about what the problem is and find solutions.
 

How do you manage your time with such a large family?
That's important to do and that's why I like schedules. If I don't have a schedule then I get frustrated. I have to have order and know what the next move is going to be so that I can plan. You have to control your time. It's the only way you can get through without having the chaos that can come so easily. With a lot of people going a lot of different directions, that can happen very easily. There's usually a set time for dinner that we like to gather for every evening as a family. That's an important time and a sacred time in our home, to have dinner together. That keeps me on track. It gives me order in my life.

What are some of your family traditions?
We love birthdays. We always celebrate birthdays and make it really fun for the person who is having the birthday. My mother always calls on the telephone with a certain song she always played for us when I was growing up. Now she does it with the grandkids on their birthdays.

Christmas is probably our very favorite season of all. On Christmas Eve, everyone gets to open one gift and it's always pajamas so they always look nice for the family videos the next morning. We always read the Christmas story and have a Nativity set that we use as we tell that story. Alan started a tradition several years ago of having banana splits on Christmas Eve, so that's the last thing we do is have banana splits. Then everybody hustles off to bed so that Santa can come. On Christmas morning, the kids get up and they're filmed walking into Christmas for the first time and all the excitement with that.

We also have family reunions throughout the year and that's always fun to see everyone and catch up on brothers and sisters and cousins.